Slate has put together an interesting series asking real men and women about careers and relationships, and the give and take that ultimately ensures between the two. I think it's refreshing to hear honest reflection about the choices and sacrifices men and women make throughout their lives, about the different values people hold dear, and the different opportunities people have. Certainly these stories aren't a cure-all or a panacea for all debates about careers, families, having-it-all or even feminism more broadly, but they're interesting and refreshing nonetheless. Life is often more complicated than just leaning in.